If you’re looking for some help on how to finger a girl, then you’ve already scored some brownie points since you’re making the effort to make foreplay as hot as can be which does not include poking about inside of her like a lost rat looking for a hole to hide in! Fingering a girl requires a little more than just pushing a finger in and out. Read, learn and then get ready to reap the rewards that follow her mind-blowing orgasm thanks to your digits!
Knock before you enter. Don’t just push your way in because you won’t likely be welcome just yet! You need to get her aroused first so that she will be nice and wet and able (and very willing!) to take your finger in easily.
Move Slowly. You don’t want to go in at warp speed because even though she’s all wet and writhing around, it’s still a delicate area that you’re visiting so be cautious since the last thing you want is to scratch her and really ruin what you’ve got going! Push your forefinger into her slowly—not too deep—and just as slowly slide it in and out. Take turns fingering her hole and sliding your wet finger up over her clit; the combination will drive her wild! Then go in with two fingers. They should be facing upward for maximum pleasure.
Do the ‘come hither’ move. Curl your fingers upward and move them as you would if calling someone over. It may sound ridiculous, but it’ll feel amazing and it is also the best shot you have at finding her G-spot and really sending her through the roof! Continue the move and slowly and steadily increase your pressure and speed. If she is responding favorably, then keep at it and don’t stop until you have to, but if she doesn’t seem to be getting any closer to orgasm, then it’s time to switch back to some clit action. You can keep your forefinger and middle finger inside of her while your thumb rubs her clit. (Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm)
Quick Tips
- Wash your hands before you get started to avoid spreading germs. Nails should be short to avoid scratching.
- Be aware of your rhythm so you know when you’ve found the right one—it may come in handy again!
- Don’t be rough unless she asks for it no matter what you see in porno films!